A handful of rules are all you need to be a good parent

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Every parent wants to be a good parent. The truth is every parent also worries about how to be that good parent. There are lots of complicated books at there that aim to tell parents how to be good at their jobs. At the same time, in general, all such work can essentially be boiled down to a few ideas. These are tips that every single parent can follow with ease. Doing so can make it easier to be a good parent who sets up rules and helps kids reach their full potential.

Failing is fine

Failing can feel terrifying. Many parents are scared of letting their children fail. At the same time, failing is part of life. Now is the time to help kids learn to fail. Kids can be taught to deal with failure. learning that failure does not have to be the end of the world is a very useful life lesson. Kids can make mistakes now and learn to do tins correctly. For example, a child might not do the laundry quite properly the first time. Letting that child learn how to do the laundry at an early age after that first problem will pay off with a more self sufficient adult.

Teach kids to be kind

Kindness should not be just a once in while thing. Kindness and consideration for others needs to be something kids do every single day rather than just at Christmas. Have kids see through the world through the eyes of others in the world all the time. Let them show you they care. A child who does the chores without being asked when you’re tired is a child who is thoughtful and considerate. These are qualities they can use for the rest of their lives.

Keep to a specific bedtime

Kids need structure. Bedtime is the ideal place to begin. Kids should go to bed at the same time every single night. This applies during the week. It should also apply on weekends and holidays. Make it clear that kids need to follow a bedtime routine and then head off to bed. Help kids enjoy this routine with special things you do at night. For example, build up a library of books the child likes. The child can pick out their favorite book. You can read it to them. As they master a larger vocabulary, they can read it to you with pride.

Take healthy risks and be brave

Parents serve as role models for kids from the very first. Show them how to face difficult choices and come out the other end. If you’re afraid to do something, take the time and do it with them. For example, if there’s a food you’ve never tried before, bring them along with you and try it out. They’ll see that you’re open to new experiences. They’ll see that you took a risk and make a decision. They’ll feel more confident doing the same.